Everyone gets nervous sometimes. It’s how you can learn to sharpen your focus and get in the right frame of mind for an upcoming exam or other performance. But, sometimes, the nervousness can give way to anxiety.
Here is how you can help your teen overcome their case of extreme nerves.
It is called exam anxiety. This is the situation when your child has studied and attended class but still fails the exam. They know the information, but the examination situation leaves them too anxious to perform well.
What are some of the signs? Your child may have sweaty palms, rapid breathing and agitation. This anxiety can seem to border on a panic attack if it is severe enough.
What happens during the exam is this: Hundreds of thoughts run through your child’s head, including a scenario that features them failing. Their nervousness, once at bay, returns. They draw a blank on the information and can’t remember what they knew cold one day ago.
The same can happen before a recital or even a big game. Your teen gets so worked up about the major event that they can hardly perform. They could freeze on stage before their big solo or speech. In the game they may even make numerous mistakes that they wouldn’t have before.
It has happened to all of us, but it can be devastating for your teen. Such an occurrence can undermine their self-esteem, not to mention make them feel bad for letting their friends, family and team mates down. Maybe you can head off this type of situation with these ideas:
* Take a practice test – Recreate the exact situation they will be in soon. As they feel the anxiety building, coach them through breathing techniques and affirmations they can use to boost their confidence and calm down enough to take the test.
Is your child anxious when it comes to taking exams or performing in general? Use these ideas to help them prepare well and be worry-free.